Thursday, November 24, 2011

be your own best friend by roshni

this is the first post i am CCPing from my frds wall have a good read.!!! *CCP= cut copy paste*

It is great to have best friends and close knit family  in life. A support system when you feel like you are running out of oxygen! 
But it's important to be able to stand on your own two feet and walk with a straight head once you are breathing again or when the situation demands so. For this I believe the most important thing is to love your own self. No, don't think loving your self is being selfish... It is in fact the most selfless thing to do.... why, you may ask....

You're not doing anybody any good (even if your intentions are in place) by neglecting your needs to take on those of others. It's like they say on the plane, first place your oxygen mask, then help those around you. If you are trying to help someone else first and run out of air, then you're not doing anybody else any good.

     If you had a healthier, more loving relationship with yourself, imagine how much better of a family member, friend, spouse, parent, employee and citizen you could be. Imagine the confidence this builds, the security, the self love, the compassion, the kindness, the patience...

Being your own best friend, you learn to forgive yourself... you learn to accept changes in life and to let go when it is needed. You learn to empathize rather than sympathize with people in pain around you. If you love your self then loving others becomes much more easier.... You see love as one of the most fulfilling emotion and do not confuse it with other emotions like anger, sadness, jealousy, or any such negative state of mind. Loving yourself helps you learn that love is all about having your mind at peace.... A logically how can anyone else love you... if you yourself don't see the best in you..how will someone else love you when you yourself can't love you....

     I wholeheartedly believe that being able to be there for yourself at all times, and in all aspects of life is a life skill everyone should learn and master. It's not selfish because the long term effects are selfless. The better you can be for yourself, the better you can be for the rest of the world.

- Roshni








Sunday, January 9, 2011

You Disappear!

If I shout and If I cry
Will you hear my voice
in midst of all our noise;
This love could not stand
and the trust had to collapse
My heart is a barren land;
Its so clear
as all now cease 
I wasnt your missing piece;
the puzzle remains unsolved;
Should I wait to type
or should I sit all day long
reading all your older texts; 
Is there any hope of a call
when you have given up
on me and all;
Still I see your face in crowd
sorrows fill my eyes
You wont believe me anymore;
Still I feel your arms around me
My body breaks all lies
You dont trust me anymore;
The more I think of you
The less I care of me;
I was high on you
I was high on us
Now I have slipped
Falling from this baseless height
I dont even cry 
Something tells me within
This fall is just the begining
as I see no near my Knight
there is no sun for this night;
I am choking ,I am suffocating
But its alright , but its ok
I like the way You hurt;
If you were my angel
you would have known
for sure
my heart has been faithful
my love was geniune ;
you woudnt ask my credentials
You see me now as pretendence
all is left is to reminiscense 
what was my error
when you were my desire
all I was blinded by love
all I did was went with flow
but yes !I forgot you followed the law
my feelings dont fit in your code
 What did I know
you would be so wounded
Forgive me oh my father!
for I have sinned
Is all that comes to me
when I complete my prayers
I dream to reach you
I want to touch you
but the fucking fear to hurt u again
makes you disappear in my memory lane

Remin Jude Francis Saldanha
*theres no one to dedicate*

Tuesday, December 28, 2010

christmas gift !

I know I have been good,
I havnt been phoney
and I feel so bonafide
of first degree qaulity
when the snow falls
i know its HIS blessings
When Nicoles making his list
i will be at top of this year
and i have been good for you
bcos all i want this xmas is you
ain't want nothing but you
right under my skin

i dont care about my frds
let them celebrate with champagne
i dnt care about those presents
let them lay under the Tree
i wnt put my shocks up on the wall
but sit besides the fireplace all night long
waiting for you
to kindle that warmth in me
waiting for you
wrapped in red satin
hung on my tree
for all i want this xmas is you
aint want nothing but you
right under my skin

the party is over
all have left the room
i am waiting for you
like a kid to be picked up soon
waiting for you to kiss
under the mistletoe
tonight i let you be my rider
All my doors are open
let me be your chanel sheath
Baby come 
celebrate your christmas on me
there nothing better than this
and i want this xmas is you
aint want nothing but you
right under my skin

a unfinished poem for unfinished story
remin
~jufi~

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

TREAT ME LIKE YOUR ONE TIME CELEBRATION...!


I know you’re my illusion, and don’t want any explanation 
B’cos you smile is like canon, awakening my dead conscience
When the day gets toughen, your messages seems only option
Only you make me so light, when my life seemed so burnt
And I am standing at this junction, wanting to thank you zillion
Waiting for our fusion, treat me like your one time celebration!

I don’t know your intentions, Still don’t want any explanation
Bcos your eyes guide my navigation, you have become my direction
When the wintry nights make me frozen, your calls become my pain sanction 
Only you can get me that high, only you can give me this shine
And I am standing at this junction, wanting to thank you zillion
Waiting for our fusion, treat me like your one time celebration!

I know we can never get woven, STILL! Still don’t want any explanation
This life is a living Dungeon, and I am ready to live in this isolation
B’cos when I’m bid at auction, I know you will take me as your win
Only you make me brazen, and I wonder where you have been
And I am standing at this junction, wanting to thank you zillion
Waiting for our fusion, treat me like your one time celebration!

Remin Jude Francis Saldanha 
*for my Hooker*

Thursday, November 18, 2010

WHO ARE YOU?
All you want is the silence for sometimes. All you want is to defeat that unstoppable merciless time and take a small amount of it’s infinity in your pockets and have it only for yourself. No work, no play , no love , no fights, no looking at mails , no bitching , no thinking what should I wear , not to worry about dinner tonight,  no waiting for the friends, no waiting for calls. NO.NO.NO. Just you.  How much time you take for yourself? Thinking about yourself. Do you nurture yourself?  Do you ask how you feeling today. Do you smile when you look at the mirror? Do you kiss yourself? Do you stand and contemplate how you have been a winner to reach upto this stage of life from being insignificant unicell or you just whine about how you have become a complex human character who has lost this faith in human feelings. Why have lost your trust in truth. Why can’t your heart find any way to healing? Why can’t your eyes weep? What made you a stone and when did you become one. Do you have an answer? Lost. Silence. Defeated.
Why do freshers have to prepare and mug for answering “tell me about yourself” for the interviews. Even if we are selected for the job and come out of the cabin victorious, haven’t we failed in the biggest and continuous test of Life yet again? We just don’t know who we are. Close your eyes and ask yourself what word describes you. And you baffle. You can’t think of a right word.
So are the trophies decorating the cupboard of your hall worthwhile? Are those medals on your uniform are your only identity? Those certificates in de files the only proof your existence?
What you really want? What makes you smile truly? WHO ARE YOU btw? doesnt that give you Hibidejeebidis? A Faceless Face. A Lifeless Life.
Rather than waiting for love from others why don’t you love yourself. Why don’t you smile at yourself than expecting from others? Why don’t you cry for yourself than for others?
I remember my dear friend’s post in FB “If somebody seriously wants to be in your life , he/she will seriously work to be in your life.” and I continue further ” If you seriously want to live a life, live your life, not somebody’s else.”
What differentiate us from non human beings is our human feelings. But with this shrunken hearts can we call humans anymore.
You might have won various battles. But you can’t win the war without knowing who you are.
Sometimes you need to close your eyes to truly open your eyes. All you need in your life is YOU to stand beside you and only then you can stand for others.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Am i Dreaming ?

AM I DREAMING

Can you feel this thing
Or am I dreaming
 It's too good to be true
So I guess I am dreaming
It Makes me feel brand new
 Body is burns like never,
Sweat shimmers as ever
You do things, I never knew
Satisfaction so guaranteed
My head goes on a wild spin,
When you take me as a win
Teasing and squeezing
Opening and closing
Slow , Go easy
 All night you keep me riding
Take me to the land,
where I ll keep exclaiming
A certified quality,When your raining
It makes me feel go lucky,
When you keep winning
I know ,I know I am dreaming!

RMN
REMIN JUDE FRANCIS SALDANHA

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Need to crack you down!!!

There's something about you;
And I keep looking at the way you;
keep pinging me, teasing me,
And I keep wondering at the way you;
keep easing me, dissing me,
Feels like there's a sign;
Even when u tie your shoe;
And though to me it makes no sense;
I can't recognize ; I need to revise;
But my temperature rise ,You fill me with craze;
I have to crack you down ;You are like a maze

You dusky ;So flirty; I know you are kinda fishy; 
You keep throwing me like Frisbee;
As your mood swings from jaunty to crabby;
Your vibe, Your style, Your hairdo; it so classy;
When you sing Te Amo, There's no escape;
But to be Numb Encore, do it to me like Jay Z;
And though to me it makes no sense;
I can't recognize ; I need to revise;
But my temperature rise ,You fill me with craze;
I need to crack you down ;You are like a maze.

Your smile electrifies my nerves, get shimmered;
Your touch magnetizes me to you forward;
You Google me like a word; Oh! I am so captured;
A soft toy in your bed; Waiting to be loved;
Paint me black , I want to be colored ;
Shop me all night, want to make you addicted;
And though to me it makes no sense;
I cant recognize ; I need to revise;
But my temperature rise ;You fill me with craze;
I must , must crack you down ;You are like a maze.

By RMN
Remin Jude Francis Saldanha

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Why are you RUDE to me!


Like an aimless cloud
Dark and overcast
ever ready to pour
at that thunder's thud;
Was living my shameful life
with head down
decaying to core
lost those hopes to bud.

Reminiscing those words
" Taken and Used "
the unforgettable curse
paralyzing each process;
Torn among  Trinity of
my desire want need
selfish to be nurse
time now don't reverse.

Brightening my dungeon 
Go getter of radiant glow
flown in an aircraft
my Trinity has got a face
in form of you;
waiting , there's no option; 
for your oyee hello babu malu
and to pick up a fight
fail to prove how in love
I am with you.

You  make me baby so;
unfoolish ;uncomplicated, un toto.
super strong when u buzz;
super high when you kiss.
hate you for i love you;
love you for i hate you.
I know those killer smile & moves;
you Rude! controlling my nerves.
stop playing with my heart so purple ;
each time you say good bye.

And all i want is to
smash into you rite now
singing "teenage dreams"
and blowing balloons
maybe this is worst dream
or a sweet nightmare
my guilty pleasure materializing
dont want to wake up
from you this time to be
broken hearted again

Though this sleep i know
gonna be short lived
roads are and will separate
these feelings may subside
and you shall remember
as yet another guy existing
you may have many cuties
all i ask to remember
that i have only you
your one in million 

Atleast meet me halfway
I am waiting
Stop being Rude to me

RMN
Remin Jude Francis Saldanha

Monday, June 14, 2010

"CORPORATE HIPOCRISY"

 
Lets face it. CSR is doing all good, good things. Of course, there's nothing wrong doing good but complications arise but thers no connection with what firms carry out in their business and CSR. Edward Freeman in his book "Stakeholder Theory: The State of the Art"says there will be serious implications as there is no connection between business functions and CSR, as the underlying structure of companies is  not to do good or remain morally neutral.  

While checking out blog of Xieli Lee(refer:http://203.117.89.231/news/15544), he refers about Olam International's CEO Sunny Verghese speech in Singapore Human Capital Summit ,2009. He says " companies would set aside a certain percentage of the profits to give away to charitable causes but with another reason in mind. The real motivation was at the end of the year, we could inventorise all the good deeds we have done, score public relations brownie points and present that to the board or including it in the annual report."
Look at Bill Gates , George Soros to name few...Billionaires who worry about global problems, and use the riches gained by capitalist exploitation for the greater good. Is that double standard living??? Mr.Soros says " charity is part of the game, a humanitarian mask hiding the underlying economic exploitation". Bill Gates...A cruel businessman, destroying or buying out competitors, aiming at a virtual monopoly; on the other, the great philanthropist who makes a point of saying: 'What does it serve to have computers if people do not have enough to eat?"
Supporting Sceptic David Henderson , CSR is not meant to improve profitability but companies are using CSR to market themselves and build it as competitive advantage without implementating in their core business structure  and the results are whooping disasterous. Look at the recent financial debacle. It showed the results of separating Ethics and Capitalism. Large banks and financial institutions ...Goldman Sachs, Lehmann, Morgan Stanley to name a few ...were doing their part of CSR but they brought own the entire global economy because they couldn't connect ethics with what they do, to creat value or to fulfil their basic responsibilties  to stakeholders. A perfect example of what I say "CORPORATE HIPOCRISY!!!".
Well the point I am trying to make is that firms have got confused between doing good for society with their cunning business pratices. It's not aligned as firms taking CSR as different from business practices .

 current CSR model followed by companies

Companies’ failure to integrate their brand and CSR strategies is often the reason why thier  initiatives are not as well received or are as effective as intended. Stakeholders have become smart enough to understand that the firms are using the CSR activities as gimmick thanks to internet , websites and CSR reports.
Tying CSR in with business activities is the first step to successfully integrate CSR into business strategy.By analyzing how these competencies impact a business' stakeholders,
organizational boardrooms identify if stakeholders are negatively affected by their company's actions and also how they use their organization's core competencies in innovative ways that benefit stakeholders, society and business. When this is done CSR becomes sustainable development. CSR is a part of sustainable development or may I take liberty to say CSR evolved to SD in present times.

This diagram pictorially shows that SD is larger circle that emcompasses CSR. SD is shaping all the business practices to integrate CSR in social ,legal, technical and other aspects of the firm. Sustainability is the result of having such sustainable policies and processes, and aligning them so that goals in one area are not compromised in favour of those in another. Its a long term aproach unlike CSR which gives a benefits only for short time. It takes  a stakeholder aproach. Its considers both inside out as well as outside in aspect of the business.

Companies have slowly realised the difference between SD & CSR. Maybe its stakeholder pressure or its on internal realization( am I sounding pessimistic?), SD is catching up. While 53% of firms worldwide surveyed by the Economist Intelligence Unit claim to have a coherent sustainability policy, only half of these extend this beyond internal operations to encompass their supply chains. In all, less than one in three executives (29%) say their company has a coherent strategy that covers the whole business and its supply chain.

         Source: Economist Intelligence Unit survey, October 2007.

On careful look on the responses given by 1200 executives worldwide when asked the reasons for opting for SD in their firms we see, retaining customers, profitability and building image are of high priority. None of them are bother to improve society or envirnoment . SD for Ecological economic efficiency is only in theories that we learn.
 
SO is SD again a corporate gimmick??? After failure of CSR  high voltage drama show off by firms and increase pressure from stakeholder, firms have no option but to succumb to follow ethical practices or atleast pretend to do good. Common!!! As Mr. Soros says..."If there is a conflict between making money and doing good, making money will win out every time." Straight from horse's mouth. That's true. Firms are there to mint money and they go to any extent to put show their poker face in order to retain their profitability.

To concluded CSR and SD is not at fault but the intentions with what companies are practising it or pretending to practise is questionable. Its all in the ethics and morals after all ,which is again a huge topic of dicussion all together.

References:

A. T. Kearney, Bank of America,  2008," Doing Good-Business and sustainability challenge",The Economist.

Bazin, D. and Ballet, J. (2004). Corporate social responsibility: the natural environment as a
stakeholder? In: International Journal of Sustainable Development, Vol. 7, 1, pp. 59-75.

Daniela Ebner, 2006, "The relationship between Sustainable Development and Corporate
Social Responsibility", Corporate Responsibility Research Conference 2006, 4th-5th September, Dublin.

DesJardins, J. (1998). Corporate Environmental Responsibility. In: Journal of Business Ethics,
Vol. 17, 8, pp. 825-838.


Cheers
RMN
Remin 

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

US SINO MONEY WAR

We are very well aware that US is the Major importer of Chinese goods.

Now the US is suffering from high level of unemployment rate i.e. stuck near 10% with the U.S. economy having shed 8.4 million jobs since December 2007 due to double digit recession (source :www.reuters.com). It wants to minimize it by providing the employment. For that it wants to give jobs to people. This can be done if it improves manufacturing sectors. There has to be demand for their goods in the country too. For that it has to reduce its import from China. US is asking China to revalue Yuan so as to it increases its price of their goods. As the prices increase, the demand for their goods in US and other countries will decrease and hence US can increase its manufacturing sector to provide employment and also to increase exports in order to improve their of Balance of payments (right it is expected that US deficit is 140% of its GDP).
China has always been blamed by the economist (including IMF on March 1 ,2010) for keeping their Yuan undervalued intentionally by to 40 percent because of this  China gives an unfair price advantage in international trade, takes jobs away from other countries and adds to global financial distortions.
Definitely China being notorious for Protectionist nation won’t let this happen. What will happen if China appreciates it Yuan? The demand for Chinese products will reduce as the price of the goods increases. Thus this will impact its exports, reducing the demand and increasing their unemployment rate. Will China do that? Never!!! But Chinese Vice Commerce Minister Zhong Shan bluntly said that it’s nobody interest to revalue Yuan anyways.
Moreover there is another school of thoughts by some economist that evaluation of the Yuan would not bring back U.S. jobs because many of the labor-intensive products Americans buy from China have not been made in the United States for decades(source: Reuters).
Some are weary that this could also be spark for US Sino Trade War affecting the International Trade on whole. China which holds $889 billion of U.S. government bonds and whose help is needed to tame the nuclear ambitions of Iran so US has can’t do much than requesting. But US is making policies such as anti dumping policy , strict tariff plans etc to indirectly curb China’s exports.
China on other side is asking to devalue US dollars for which US says that this will affect the entire Global Financial systems. China also says that US can increase it exports to China which has been stagnating for a long time. 
Also China is under stress mainly because China is thinking this can lead to isolation in G20 meetings and moreover domestic factors and actors convinced China's leadership that diminishing marginal returns for keeping the Yuan fixed and massively undervalued had kicked in.

In the end what I think is right now the Ball is China’s court.
Cheers
RMN
Remin